I made sure to grab what i wanted for valentines day night and tried to not let my stomach be a factor.
I have big thighs and arms plus much more i don’t like about myself but i dont want to be weighed down by my insecurities.
I got a bra from cacquie on sale so yay! $24 well spent and a dress form torrid also on sale hurray me . I want what every girl of any size wants to look and feel sexy. I want my Valentine to really be surprised and enjoy me as much as i enjoyed dressing up. You shouldnt have to play dress up every day to get your partners attention but when i do i want to know its worth it.
So the flowers red and black are exactly what I didnt know i needed. Im curious where other people got their outfits from.
Now i didnt edit my pictures except used a filter on snapchat video because i wanted to show how flawed i am. My body is the product of kids, weight gain and my age. I feel perfectly okay letting that side out to show my vulnerable self hoping another woman who looks like me also feels confident enough to wear something they wouldnt or feel they cant.