A plus size Human Alien Person

Im young Plus Size and Dont feel bad about it



Foodie Day

So today i visited a place that stays packed! The Turkey leg hut. I mean this business is not something you can pass up.

They serve frozen drinks in crown glass bottles. They serve the biggest mimosa in City of Houston.

I walked up and there was a line on bench per usual. I have seen people line up 3 hours before open so i was prepared for long weight but i was happily surprised to get a seat at bar almost immediately.The room instantly smelled of smoked BBQ. The location is small but they makeup for not having much room inside with ample seating with fans outside.

I sat at bar and was greeted by super friendly waitress and gorgeous to boot!I ordered there signature dish the Shrimp Alfredo stuffed leg.(pictured below) I enjoyed my meal so much. I have never went somewhere where salt and peppers was not needed.

This dish was seasoned to perfection.Someone who is not keen on spice at times it might be a tad on spicy side but the plump Cajun shrimp and rice with fall off the bone turkey meat was a meal to be remembered. I am sure i look silly taking pictures and just in aw of my dish but i couldn’t help but i couldn’t help but gush over this food. It seemed like something you only see on Instagram but right here in my home town!

IF you visit Houston i suggest you try it! I love supporting family owned business and black owned businesses so this was not only delicious but your supporting someone dream here, They have food trucks as well and i would drive out my way to eat here again.


Semester One Down

A 30 year old student is not something you think of when you think of college but in reality that is normal now a days.

My situation is that i never thought i could or would go to school, it seemed like an option only for people with money. The things i saw others do seemed so far away from my grasp. I was 16 when i dropped out and got my G.E.D, alot of people do not even get that. I started my family at 16, with a man 6 years older than me.

I never thought i would be more than at home and i am so proud that i found something that truly calls me. My kids see how dedicated i am to it and only thing i hate is that it truly is a juggling act. 7 kids and 3 in diapers yet i still take four classes full time and hold part time job.

I like many other people have trouble with Math. Math is what held me back. The major i am in now is arts major so my math change to contemporary math but i cant say it wasnt any easier for me. I this semester finished the last mandatory math i needed and am now free to just study audio.

The sigh of relief was one of years of worry. I can actually see a career now and my future. One were i can earn a livable wage and enjoy what i do. Am i selfish for wanting more than a job?

I know now it hard to for my kids because they do not get my undivided attention but i know it will pay off in the end for all of us.

Im ready for my future to be more than a mother, spouse,cook,nurse and caregiver. I want more purpose. I love and enjoy every second of motherhood but that does not mean its all sunshine. Its hard work but i know will something i can look forward to everyday that would alot help give my kids that extra is all i have ever wanted.

Are you considering a change in life? Do you struggle with meaning in you existence? What is keeping you from pursuing more? These are all things i also had to question myself for years before i actually took action. Lets be students together , if you choose to also make a journey similar share it with me i would love to hear your progress and bask in your success

The World of Audio

I attached my YouTube video of a glimpse into my classes.Please show me some positive vibes.

I started a new career. I am currently studying to be an Audio engineer and I never realized how much i would love it and also how hard it is. I spent months unsure with what i wanted to do with with my life. I mean im 30 everything should be magical and figured out right.

Well my ass it was , my whole life was just a serious of random events. I did not plan much and never followed through. I was a waitress and had opportunity to see Audio people in their elements and found myself intrigued.

I constantly asked questions, and looking at what the did and how. After a year of practically stalking this people one of the girls told me “Why dont you just go to school fr Audio”

Honestly it did not cross my mind, Me in audio?

But after much thoughts i went and talk to college counselor and i signed up immediately. I am in love yall!

Yes i said yall i am from Texas , lol

So now im taking these classes take so much time and i just cant get over how uch i enjoy it all.Turns out females only make up like 5% of Audio industry which is crazy.

I joined soundgirls and follow them on every social media and i decided t start Youtube Vlog of just what i am learning.I mean maybe inspire someone else completely floating in the wind like i was.

When i start i will update yall but anyone else finding out what they want later in life.When everyone else deep in their careers

A new Path

As long as I can remember I have been trying to get my degree in computers. The money is good and I thought that’s what I wanted but I never could. Never could finish it. Keep going and do what i needed to.

I work in a concert hall. I see alot of people in different lines of work. I began to really become interested in Audio.

I asked the audio techs tons of questions. What they did and how. After a year if stalking these people I starting to look into it and how to do it. I knew someone like me though could not do that. I’m an older girl now and I have kids.

How could a mother do music. Especially a job that mainly consist of men.Who would ever hire me.

Well after doubting myself a couple more months I jumped. I changed my degree plan and now everything just running so smooth. All my classes are going so well. I so interested in what I’m doing. How did I not do this before. Why did I get in my own way. I joined SoungGirls and found out about women in Audio. We make up only 5% of Audio.

I started coming to my job with my interest and my plan for degree and they seem to be on board. The final tell for me when it comes down to me moving into that area but I feel positive.

Why as a women did I doubt myself because I’m a mother?

Are they people or women in Audio here, Do you have advice?

I am going for live sound.

Did any of you stop yourself do to prejudice you put in your own head, please tell me.

Plus Size Mommy

So i know i have been gone for way too long but last i posted i had twins. Well me this lady here has been busy. I had another child! No i did not have twins again but a single boy. So now i have 3 under 1 years old which is very intense. I sometime dont know how to pee alone let alone anything else but im making it work.In total i have 7 kids now. Yes 7 that is not a typo. I have 2 twin sets and 3 singles.Now it is hard keeping my mind and body to my liking and confidence high,So i will keep righting and blogging to give my person experiences as a mother of so many and most important a woman.I am more than just a mother or wife. I am a woman of substance and interest outside my daily life and kids. I am also about to start vlogging so i will inform everyone accordingly.I am working my way to be Audio engineer so right now im a student, mom,wife and trying to stay an individual.. Thank you everyone for the read and support. Anyone else with tips and trick for a regular mom let me know i have open ear.

Beach Promo Shoot

So i did a beach swim suit shoot for a local blogger Sarah Jane Morales and it was an experience.

I never thought as a plus size person that i would ever be asked to do such a thing so i was excited and curious to say the least. The instructions were simple come in a suit ready to shoot.I have been sporting my crochet suit from Torrid 2 seasons now. I know i should buy another but i love it.

What i can say from experience it was nice to take the pictures were the people knew i am fat, so i will in my pictures look fat but that doesnt mean they wont look good. I didnt suck in my stomach or try to find angles to flatten my body but i posed how i felt most confident.

It is weird to just accept a picture where your arms are big and stomach not flat but that is what being plus size is. I have a stomach and it hangs.

I will give more details later on this promo shoot because its for a plus size weekend at our local beach which is in Galveston tx and i think loads of ladies would love a judgement free atmosphere.

I didnt compare my body or stomach hang to any of the other ladies and neither did they. Instead we cheered for eachother and gave advice and it was Wonderful guys!I hope you like the pictures but they are not the official ones. I just was excited to share.

If you click the link you will see the other models Ge, Zanchelle,Chassidy, Alice and sarah and myself plus so many more will be at event July 14, and these ladies are so very lovely! You dont want to miss it

Wonderland Exchange took this top photo

Fellow model Zanchelle i believe took this one.

Sexy at Any Size

I made sure to grab what i wanted for valentines day night and tried to not let my stomach be a factor.

I have big thighs and arms plus much more i don’t like about myself but i dont want to be weighed down by my insecurities.

I got a bra from cacquie on sale so yay! $24 well spent and a dress form torrid also on sale hurray me . I want what every girl of any size wants to look and feel sexy. I want my Valentine to really be surprised and enjoy me as much as i enjoyed dressing up. You shouldnt have to play dress up every day to get your partners attention but when i do i want to know its worth it.

So the flowers red and black are exactly what I didnt know i needed. Im curious where other people got their outfits from.

Now i didnt edit my pictures except used a filter on snapchat video because i wanted to show how flawed i am. My body is the product of kids, weight gain and my age. I feel perfectly okay letting that side out to show my vulnerable self hoping another woman who looks like me also feels confident enough to wear something they wouldnt or feel they cant.

New Year Doesnt always mean New Me

I hear everyone say new year new me which is great! What i cant get behind is since im fat everyone assumes im on diet and especially after new year people just assume my goal is to get thin. I hate to break it to people but its not. I dont have anything against people trying to lose weight but im not. 

It drives me crazy that i even have random people say oh what are you doing to lose weight or what gym did you join. I have a gym but not to lose 100 pounds but because i like to exercise. I have people in my own family trying to find get thin quick schemes and plans. 

I dont know why its so wrong to feel comfortable in my skin. I really just want everyone to know that being fat doesnt mean that im trying to lose weight or that i am fat just because i havent found right way to get thin. I dont have enough fingers on my hands to count the people telling me to get surgery. Weight loss surgery is a major thing and truly only for people who want it and are dedicated to that lifestyle. 

I am fat and not trying to lose or gain weight! I am also happy with ny body besides a couple things like everyone else. 

As for new year new me i was thinking new job and i want to go out more. I want to be more adventurous!? I am nearing the dirty 30 and i have never been to Vegas or a Killers concert.

What is you goal for new year?! What would make you happy or great memories for you?

New year New Swim Suit

I recently vacation in South padre and to start off right i bought a new swim suit! I got a red one with polka dots from torrid but it had way to much padding for me which was so sad , It was so cute. I was happy to get another torrid suit that it like a halter top and see through skirt. I can’t say enough how much I love it! I also got some new shorts and glasses and panties if im honest. 

I did get some judgemental stares but I was having way to much fun to worry. A crop top and shorts on a big girl! yes and it was great and I felt awesome. I noticed most of women giving me funny looks were other big girls which is sad. They should be more on my side than anyone but I hope one day we can support eachother more.

Any who I hope everyone shops around and fund their perfect suit.  The one that makes you feel perfect and sexy without worrying about judgement. 

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